{"id":25626,"date":"2025-05-20T16:01:03","date_gmt":"2025-05-20T16:01:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thebmsproject.org\/staging\/?page_id=25626"},"modified":"2025-05-20T19:48:48","modified_gmt":"2025-05-20T19:48:48","slug":"early-adolescent-four-pillars-parent","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/thebmsproject.org\/staging\/early-adolescent-four-pillars-parent\/","title":{"rendered":"Early Adolescent Four Pillars &#8211; Parent"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"25626\" class=\"elementor elementor-25626\" data-elementor-post-type=\"page\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-03724a7 elementor-section-full_width elementor-hidden-tablet elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"03724a7\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-b3c6953\" data-id=\"b3c6953\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-75390d8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"75390d8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1920\" height=\"320\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thebmsproject.org\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/5.png?fit=1920%2C320&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-3769\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thebmsproject.org\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/5.png?w=1920&amp;ssl=1 1920w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thebmsproject.org\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/5.png?resize=300%2C50&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thebmsproject.org\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/5.png?resize=1024%2C171&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thebmsproject.org\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/5.png?resize=768%2C128&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thebmsproject.org\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/5.png?resize=1536%2C256&amp;ssl=1 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-91d1258 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"91d1258\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-53052ed\" data-id=\"53052ed\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6f06715 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"6f06715\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">INTRODUCTION TO THE BMS PROJECT<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-722fee8 elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"722fee8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-156a8c5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"156a8c5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"160\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thebmsproject.org\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Together...-here-for-our-youth.png?fit=1024%2C160&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-8745\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thebmsproject.org\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Together...-here-for-our-youth.png?w=2039&amp;ssl=1 2039w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thebmsproject.org\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Together...-here-for-our-youth.png?resize=300%2C47&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thebmsproject.org\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Together...-here-for-our-youth.png?resize=1024%2C160&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thebmsproject.org\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Together...-here-for-our-youth.png?resize=768%2C120&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thebmsproject.org\/staging\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Together...-here-for-our-youth.png?resize=1536%2C240&amp;ssl=1 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-bcd3d03 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"bcd3d03\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-541b0eb\" data-id=\"541b0eb\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-652f338 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"652f338\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>EMERGENCY &#8211; In a crisis call <strong>&#8220;911&#8221;\u00a0<\/strong>immediately. To assist when considering self-harm call <b>&#8220;988&#8221;<\/b> &#8211; The National Suicide Intervention Lifeline.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-1ddcb55 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1ddcb55\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;jet_parallax_layout_list&quot;:[]}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-b6e671b\" data-id=\"b6e671b\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-806a643\" 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elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f7d19f0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>A MESSAGE TO PARENTS\/GUARDIANS<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-eb90178 elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"eb90178\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-600f804 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"600f804\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" 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to encourage adults associated with youth sports to be positive and encouraging in order to best support young athletes.\u00a0 \u00a0The BMS Project&#8217;s #I tip to youth sports advocates is to &#8220;encourage them to talk those they trust.&#8221;\u00a0 Our #2 tip is to &#8220;help them to believe in and like who they are.&#8221;<\/p><p>While most parents and youth sport fans conduct themselves in a civil manner, unfortunately a few misguided adults can ruin the youth sports experience for everyone.\u00a0 As parents, guardians, coaches, fans and officials, we have an obligation and responsibility to ensure that our young athletes are able to enjoy the experience of youth sports participation.<\/p><p>The BMS Project&#8217;s Early Adolescent Four Pillars are designed to protect our young athletes, as well as officials from adult abusive misconduct.\u00a0 As a result this sort of negative behavior contributes to driving young athletes, coaches and officials out of youth sports participation.<\/p><p>The best thing that you can do as a youth sports advocate is to let them know how much we enjoy watching them play.\u00a0 There are different levels of youth sports participation ranging from recreational to elite competition.\u00a0 At each level there are stresses and pressures that weigh on elite, as well as participation level athletes.\u00a0 These stresses can be self imposed, or from external sources.\u00a0 Even on Early Adolescent athletes peer pressure, societal negativity and parental expectations\/criticism can be extremely destructive to a young person&#8217;s self esteem.<\/p><p>Adults sometimes unthinkingly exert negative influences on what should be a joyous experience.\u00a0 At the BMS Project we enthusiastically solicit your commitment to create and maintain safe, healthy, positive environments and experiences for the kids.\u00a0 We further wish to ask you as a responsible adult to respect our officials at all times.\u00a0 By working together we can 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